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Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Why?

"Why?" is the important question in Venessa Mills' case.

Why would Judge Mangum hand down such an oppressive judgment against three children and their mother?

Judge Mangum said that he is not anti-homeschool and, in my opinion, he was telling the truth. However, Judge Mangum obviously isn't pro-homeschool either. Whether he is anti- or pro- anything depends on his motivation, which is power. Judge Mangum - and many judges like him - support or condemn arbitrarily based on their own feeling of power.

The Bible is very clear on this point.

Mark 10:42-43 Jesus called them together and said, "You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.

Only those seeking to satisfy the lusts of power, pride and greed would reduce a mother and three children to powdered milk, unrealistic demands, and legal torture. Follow the pride, follow the money, and follow the need for power over others, and all the questions of "Why?" are easily answered.

Everyone, including Judge Mangum, who is lashing out against Venessa Mills and her children, is using the excuse of "the best interests of the children" to exercise their own power, authority, and opinions. But that is all it is; an excuse. Their actions demonstrate that these people do not really have the best interests of the children at heart, but instead are motivated by their own self-centered objectives.

Anyone who wants proof can simply look at the contrast between Judge Mangum's verbal ruling and his final written Order. His power and pride were threatened by the public outcry, and so he lashed out in the most demeaning and ugly manner possible. He was, and is, unable to be impartial. When he is not treated with the respect he thinks he deserves, justice is thrown out of Court and his wounded pride reigns in its place.

But, while we certainly respect justice, and while we may respect the law and the Court as institutions set up to serve justice, a judge - like anyone else - must earn respect, not demand it like a petulant child.

God tells us that, if anyone desires respect, they should become the servant of all. This means a life of humility and love - love for God and others. Sadly, these elements are all but nonexistent in our legal system, and they are clearly missing from Judge Mangum's unjust and inconsistent rulings in Venessa Mills' case.

Monday, March 30, 2009

Top 10 Reasons To Send Your Kids To Public School

On a lighter note, here are the Top 10 tongue-in-cheek reasons to send your children to public school:

1. Most children go to public school. This automatically means it's better.

2. Children who receive one-on-one homeschooling will learn more than others, giving them an unfair advantage in the marketplace. This is undemocratic.

3. How can children learn to defend themselves unless they have to fight off bullies on a daily basis?

4. Ridicule from other children, and the opportunity to join gangs and cliques, is important to the socialization process.

5. Children in public schools can get more practice "Just Saying No" to drugs, cigarettes and alcohol.

6. Continuous exposure to fluorescent lighting may have significant health benefits.

7. Publicly asking permission to go to the bathroom teaches young people their place in society.

8. The fashion industry depends upon the peer pressure that only public schools can generate.

9. Public schools foster cultural literacy, passing on important traditions like the singing of "Jingle Bells, Batman smells, Robin laid an egg..."

10. Homeschooled children may not learn important office career skills, like how to sit still for six hours straight.

It's a shame Judge Mangum's reasons for sending Venessa Mills' children to public school cannot also be treated as a joke.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Sunday School #1

Every week I will try to post a short "Sunday School" lesson.

Today’s lesson is a woe for judges, attorneys, legislators and others who seek to cause trouble for children who believe in Jesus.

Mark 9:42 And if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a large millstone tied around his neck.

Jesus always declared the truth. He tells us all that it would be better for a person to have a millstone tied around their neck and be thrown into the sea than to play around with the lives of little ones.

Jesus also used the term "woe" as a mixture of warning and judgment.

Matthew 23:13 "Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the kingdom of heaven in men's faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.

So, in the same way, He declares woe to those who test the faith, challenge the beliefs, and in any manner push injustice onto children who are trusting the God of justice. For God has reserved a Day when justice will be done to those who supported, directly or indirectly, the suffering of little children.

If there is anyone who should understand, and be afraid, of the final court at the Judgment Seat of God, it is lawyers and judges.

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Public School?

It is an obvious example of injustice for any judge to deliberately - and unnecessarily - take well-balanced, "thriving" children out of a stable homeschool environment and force them into public school. It clearly shows a prejudiced attitude, stereotypical ignorance of good homeschooling, and a personal anti-Biblical agenda. Why else would such punishment be meted out to a mother and three children who base their education on solid Biblical principles, engagement with different views, good citizenship, and generally above-grade-level results?

In Venessa Mills' case, Judge Ned Mangum said that his decision was "in the children's best interest" - to "challenge" them, to help them "socialize" and "prepare for college."


There's a well-known saying: "If it ain't broke, don't fix it." Venessa Mills' children's homeschooling was not broken - both the judge and her husband acknowledged that she was doing a "good job."

This country's public schools, on the other hand, are broken in all kinds of ways. Judge Mangum could better spend his time trying to fix those problems, instead of engaging in a courtroom crusade to "challenge" the beliefs of children who are receiving a Christian education.

Friday, March 27, 2009

Taking A Stand

Someone once said, "Apathy is a terrible thing but, hey, it's not like there's anything I can do about it."

Sadly, this describes the attitude of too many people.

The injustice in Venessa Mills' case is unique in some ways, but not in others. Whether it's the homeschool issue or the gossip or the cover up or the divorce laws, injustice affects everyone. Pretending that these things don't matter, or have no long term effects, is not only unwise but immoral. In a world where a butterfly flapping its wings in China can supposedly cause a hurricane in the Atlantic, we can't afford to be so naive. How many times in history could disasters have been averted if people had just taken a stand when they had the chance?

But why wait for an impending disaster? There are injustices all around us.

Take this example: The Wall Street Journal reports that, in Dallas, the city is considering imposing daytime curfews on kids in an effort to cut truancy and crime. Breaking the curfew would be a criminal offence and subject to a $500 fine.

Is this legal? Yes. Does it, from a certain point of view, seem like a good idea? Apparently. But there's another side to the story, and homeschoolers are doing something about it.

The loudest complaints, here and across the country, come from parents who teach their children at home on their own schedules and say their kids don't need to be indoors during school hours.

Daytime-curfew ordinances usually exempt children who can prove they are taught at home, but homeschooling parents say their kids are upset by repeated challenges from authorities when they shoot hoops in parks or ride their bikes while school is in session.

About 120,000 families in Texas homeschool approximately 300,000 children, according to the Texas Home School Coalition, an advocacy group based in Lubbock that is fighting curfews.

Home-schooling families were prominent among the roughly 80 people at a city-council hearing Wednesday, and also organized a protest outside City Hall on Monday. Doreen Fisher, a Dallas mother who homeschools her two young children, said she is also concerned about the impact of fines on low-income families.

Sometimes, smiling and shaking hands isn't good enough. Sometimes, just sitting back and reading a blog isn't good enough. This blog highlights issues that demand action.

Start now. Take a stand for Venessa Mills and her children. Take a stand for justice.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Share Your Story

We are still getting many e-mails coming in from people who can identify with what Venessa Mills is going through. The issues in this case are much wider than the judges or established organizations would have us believe.

Here's a recent example that we are sharing as an encouragement to everyone:

I have been recently following the news about the Mills family and came across your Blog.

I too am an unfortunate product of divorce while homeschooling. Although we did not have a nasty departure, once I re-married (2 years after my ex-spouse remarried) he filed suit to force our 3 daughters into public school. Thousands of dollars later there were no winners really as we were forced to use the [name removed] program and he was not required to help pay for any of it.

[name removed] is a fine program but it is not my children's style of learning.
That was 3 years ago and we have since had one graduate home school high school only using parts of that program. I write this because it is my hope and prayer that you can share this with the Mills (if possible).

What the judge decided is unconstitutional and quite frankly I doubt that the judgment carries any weight. I am currently studying this document in it's entirety and have already found so many questionable points.

I empathize completely with unjust treatment as a home school mother. Fortunately my teen daughters can defend themselves and even include a little sarcasm in their defense: "Don't you miss being with kids your age?", "From what I see in public schooled kids my age....I'd rather hang out with my grandmother...for real, I think it's a more constructive way to spend my time" "oh, and did you notice that I didn't use the word "like" 20 times in my response?"

I'm proud of my girls. Ms. Mills should rest assured that her children will carry their wisdom with them through this mess and prayerfully the bias, egotistical judge will retract his ruling before he makes a bigger fool out of himself.

If you have a story to share that demonstrates similar injustices and would encourage others, please leave a comment or send me an email at homeschool.injustice[at]gmail.com.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Capital Fest 2009

Today many North Carolina homeschoolers descended upon Raleigh for Capital Fest 2009. Capital Fest is sponsored by North Carolinians for Home Education (NCHE). NCHE promoted the event as a time to show our support for our homeschool laws, educate our legislators on the success of homeschooling and to show our legislators how much we love homeschooling in North Carolina, but not a time for protests.

The NCHE's position was respected, as it should be, and there were no picket signs, disruptions, or loud demonstrations. However, I'm happy to report that there were still many people who spoke up quietly for Venessa Mills and her kids.

Many homeschoolers and legislators personally met Venessa and her children. It was an opportunity for them to see that she is not just a news article; she's a real, everyday homeschool mom who has just suffered an incredible injustice. For many fellow-moms, seeing Venessa and her children today made this injustice a reality. Many homeschooling parents used the opportunity to ask her questions, give their support, and share their own fears of what this case reveals about our legal system.

Not one person we met felt that Judge Mangum ruled fairly or in the best interest of the children. In fact, legislators and their assistants alike expressed their concern at the judge's unjust order. One expressed his concern over the recent court case even before any homeschoolers mentioned it. Another even personally escorted Venessa to a fellow Representative who was outraged over Judge Mangum's statement that these children need to be "socialized" despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary. 

How could anyone claim that any of these homeschooled children need public school to be socialized? Yet Judge Mangum ordered exactly that, so they wouldn't just be around people of their own "status."

Do you know the story of Solomon? Remember how he ruled with wisdom? Today, one of our very own NC Supreme Court Justices shared with a group of homeschoolers that this is how our judges need to rule - with the wisdom of Solomon. Wouldn't that have been nice in this case? Then we'd have these children continuing to "thrive" in their homeschool environment and not being split down the middle with the instability of shared custody and public school.

Thank you to everyone who spoke with us at Capital Fest. Thank you to all that have not remained silent but have eagerly asked what can be done to help. Thank you to all who, having seen the truth in front of you, realize that this is not just a divorce case. Thank you to all who know that, despite the naysayers, this case has broad implications and are willing to speak up to help protect our basic rights.
 
Thank you to all who have taken action. If you haven't registered your protest already, please don't sit on the fence any longer. This battle is not over, and there's still much to be done.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Are You a Cult Leader?

Before accusing anyone else of being in a "cult," try using this handy "cult leader checklist" to find out if your relationship with others demonstrates "cultish behavior."

  • Do you impose rules and limits on their activities?
  • Do you try to control their lifestyle?
  • Do you restrict their movements, such as when they can come and go and how long they can stay away?
  • Do you try to influence their thought patterns in any way so that they conform to your will?
  • Do you manipulate them by rewarding them for good behavior and punishing them for behavior that you deem as bad?
  • Do you communicate your beliefs to them in the hope that they will believe the same as you?
  • Do you attempt to exert control over the details of their lives, such as their appearance, what food they eat, who they associate with, the kind of things they see and hear, etc?
  • Do you subject them to "discipline" when they exceed or ignore the boundaries you have set for them?
  • Do you expect them to give you their full attention whenever you desire?
  • Do you give them commands and rules that you require them to obey?
  • Do you encourage any form of emotional dependence on you, so that they look to you for guidance?
  • Do you force them to perform tasks that they may prefer not to do?
  • Do you expect them to show more love and devotion to you than to others? 

If you have a wife, husband, children, or work with other people, then chances are you'll answer yes to at least a few of these questions. You probably do most of these things without even realizing it. Well, sorry to say but, with most "cult checklists," that's enough to have you automatically branded as a cult leader.

You should take immediate action to warn everyone about yourself. You may also wish to start a website to encourage members of your cult to leave and provide support to help them recover from the "cult-like" behavior you are subjecting them to. Another standard response would be to find a few people who don't like you and get them to make vague statements on the internet about how they've always had a "bad feeling" about you and how you have tried to influence them with your "brainwashing" techniques.

Of course, should you wish to repent of being a "cult leader," you should immediately abandon all rules and control and allow complete "freedom" in your home and workplace.

Now that this "cult" gossip has been revealed for how ridiculous it really is, we'll  be moving on and continuing to focus on the real issues.

Monday, March 23, 2009

The Myth of Being Brainwashed

This case is not just about the homeschool issues. There are many other injustices that have been perpetrated, and we should be just as concerned about them.

Venessa Mills was accused, by her husband and her own family, of being "brainwashed." They said she had completely changed and was being influenced by her church. (After all, heaven forbid that anyone joining a church should actually change!)

On the other hand, Venessa Mills pointed out that they had changed too, and that they were being influenced by grudge-holding former church members. She didn't use the word "brainwashed," though.

So, either Venessa Mills is under the influence of her "cultish" church, or her husband is under the influence of the ex-"cultish" church members (and/or trying to divert attention away from his adulterous affair).

Here's what Judge Mangum said from the bench:

"I don't know. They allege and you deny, about being brainwashed ... I'm not saying that one way or another."

Judge Mangum then ordered a mental health evaluation for Venessa Mills - but not for her husband.

It's important to note that Judge Mangum didn't make any kind of solid judgment on the brainwashing issue. Based on all the evidence that he claimed he had thoroughly reviewed, he specifically stated that he didn't know. So why the one-sided mental health evaluation? Why does only Venessa Mills need to be mentally evaluated?

Because her husband used the term "brainwashed" and she didn't.

Don't believe it? Just listen to Judge Mangum's verbal ruling. He explains it very clearly. Just the mere use of the word in the allegation - with no evidence whatsoever - was enough for him to order the mental evaluation. And nobody finds this frightening?

But what good is a mental health evaluation going to do? What is brainwashing anyway? Apparently, nobody really knows - not even the so-called "cult experts."

Originally, it meant severe mental conditioning that involved persistent sleep deprivation, chemical manipulation, controlled isolation, intense psychological pressure, sensory deprivation, and many other nasty, yet tangible, techniques. And, even then, it was found to wear off very quickly as soon as the subject was removed from the direct application of these things.

Yet Judge Mangum was asked to believe that Venessa Mills was "brainwashed" by a small church on the other side of the country. What a joke!

But these days the term "brainwashing" is applied much more loosely; it is used to describe the effects of propoganda, of advertising, of peer pressure, and even of fashion-following. Do you watch TV? You could be accused of being brainwashed. Did you vote for Barack Obama or John McCain? You could be accused of being brainwashed. Do you have an iPod? You could be accused of being brainwashed. Do you drink Coca-Cola? You could be accused of being brainwashed! And watch out! If you get accused of being brainwashed in Judge Mangum's courtroom, he'll order a mental health evaluation at the very mention of the word. What a joke!

So who's really "brainwashed?" The person being accused, or the people who have been ignorantly accusing her? Or the judge who was "brainwashed" by the accusations of brainwashing into ordering a one-sided mental health evaluation, despite the lack of any evidence whatsoever?

Well, if you believe all the "experts," none of whom even agree, then we're all being "brainwashed" all the time. So, on Judge Mangum's "logic," we all need mental health evaluations. Except for anyone who accuses someone else of being brainwashed, of course. Apparently, according to Judge Mangum, that demonstrates sound mental health.

Is this what our legal system has come to? Judges basing their decisions on gossip? Ordering mental health examinations on unsubstantiated allegations alone? And then using scaremongering words like "cult" and "brainwashed" to cover his own mistakes?

How many other people have suffered at the hands of this kangaroo court system? Judging by the comments on this blog, far more than most of us are aware of.

Don't keep your head stuck in the sand! Doesn't the Bible tell us to do to others as we would have them do to us? If you don't stand up for justice now, how can you expect justice for yourself?

Judges In The Dark? - News&Observer Editorial

Click here to read an interesting editorial that was published today in the News&Observer. Interesting timing.

Why 50/50 Is Not In The Best Interests of Children

In Venessa Mills' case, Judge Mangum decided that a "50/50 split" in custody - one week on, one week off - for both parents was "in the best interests of the children." Here's why that's a bad decision - not just in this case, but in an increasing number of other cases.

1. Stability: The "one week on, one week off" schedule has children constantly bouncing back and forth between each parent. They barely settle with one parent before they are moved to the other, and then the pattern just keeps repeating. While seen by many to be more "fair" in terms of time for the parents, what is overlooked is how grossly unfair it is on young children who, especially in a divorce situation, need stability. It is the legal equivalent of Solomon cutting the baby in half - except there's no hidden wisdom or reprieve, the baby really does get cut in half, 50/50, between both parents. Only selfish parents, or a self-serving judge, would be satisfied with such a "solution."

2. History: For years, the standard visitation for fathers was weekends, or every other weekend plus an evening or two. It was a system that worked, and that provided much needed stability for the children. They were given the time and consistency to settle with the mother, while maintaining much the same relationship with the father that most would have had anyway. The courts stuck with it because, generally, it worked well. However, in recent years, political-correctness and liberalism have started to erode basic common sense, and the result is the ever-descending spiral of chaos that we see today.

3. Reality: Most fathers don't spend 50% of the time with their children anyway, even in a "happy family," non-divorced scenario. Generally, a father doesn't spend anywhere close to the amount of time with his children - especially young children - as the mother does. Weekends and a few evenings are about all most children get with their fathers anyway - if they're lucky. In many cases, it's even less than that. So giving such a father a 50% custody split in a divorce makes absolutely no sense.

4. The Mother Bond: Like it or not, it's a scientific fact that children have a greater bond with their mother in many significant ways. It's a scientific fact that it's the mother who carries the child for nine months, who gives birth, who nurses, feeds and cares for the baby in its earliest life. In the majority of cases, it's also the mother who continues to play this same role throughout the childhood years. To be sure, fathers have an important role of their own to play - and no-one's advocating cutting out fathers - but it's not "50/50." Until fathers start giving birth to their own children, there will always be a strong moral and scientific argument to support mothers getting a higher percentage of time by default.

In Venessa Mills' case, some people - including Judge Mangum - have tried to make a big deal of her supposedly unreasonable demands to limit the visitation given to her husband. Of course, these people conveniently ignore the fact that Venessa was given no time to negotiate, and no peace from persistant badgering by her adulterous husband whom she was forced to continue living with while Judge Mangum postponed court proceedings due to an emergency with his dog. Or the months of constant attacks and attempts to undermine her and her children's religious beliefs. Or the fact that Mr. Mills admitted in court that he had spent time with his mistress that he could have been spending with his children. Or the fact that Judge Mangum defended Mr. Mills as having "no criminal record" - despite the fact that adultery is still a crime in North Carolina (NC statute 14-184).

Under the circumstances, only a heartless, ignorant, or prejudiced individual would fail to understand Venessa Mills' demands, or fail to see that they were solely motivated by her desire to protect her children, or refuse to accept that there was still room for negotiation had she been allowed it.

Judge Mangum, however, managed to completely ignore all common sense and non-hearsay evidence by ruling that it was in "the best interests of the children" to punish and ridicule their mother, split their time 50/50 between both parents and - on top of all that - to disrupt them further by uprooting them from four years of homeschooling and forcing them into public school.

This kind of injustice and opinion is what now passes as "in the best interests of the children" in our courtrooms. Anyone who dismisses this case as having no bearing on homeschool rights, or no bearing on them, will only have themselves to blame when they finally wake up and discover that they are in the same situation.


Sunday, March 22, 2009

Response by Wiley Drake

A few days ago, Pastor Wiley Drake, a former vice-president of the Southern Baptist Convention, posted this message.

Anti-Religion gossipers and North Carolina Judge force a Christian Mother to place her 3 children in a dangerous, un-Godly, un-safe public government school.

From the Court room audio I heard Judge Ned W. Mangum say, "this case has nothing to do with religion" then proceeded to issue a very anti-religious order.

After reading the 10 page "TEMPORARY CUSTODY ORDER Case # 08 CVD 17753 I have a few things I would like to discuss.

If I were an attorney I would ask how can the court say "finds this a credible statement" when it was simply a Grandmother saying she was concerned about the effect on the children when discussing the Mother's involvement with one, Sound Doctrine Church.

Court records show that the court said about the Church, "very small membership and does not have a traditional building in Wake County." I pastor a Southern Baptist main line Church, and even though we are 15 million strong more that 1/2 of our Churches are "small with a non traditional building." Guess the SBC is Cult- like.

Another feature of this Church was that the pastor and his wife were refered to as Mom and Dad. Since my wife and I have been at the same Church for more than 21 years and have passed the age of 65 many refer to me as Dad and her as Mom. I even have a few converted Catholics that still call me Father. Guess I better be careful I might be a Cult leader.

The other day I was on an airplane and a small child came over and climbed up on my lap. The Mother said he never goes to a stranger, and then she looked at my grey hair and said "I guess you look like a Grandpaw." I should have told her I might be a Cult leader.

Former members of our Church with whom we had to exercise tough love, since they would not give up booze and dope would tell you that we harassed them to support our Church rather than the local bar and drug dealer on the street. Former members mad at God always find one of God's anointed to blame for their backsliding.

Still another thing in the court record record was a reference to "boot camp style regimen." I guess I had better tell my friend David Wilkerson to tell his friend Dick Simmons to quit calling his Men for Nations prayer group prayer "boot Camp," someone might call them a cult.

Court records indicate Mr. Mills said his wife Venessa stopped communicating and he also said she told family members she did not feel married to him any longer. Maybe it was because he was having sex with his mistress. The court record indicates with no other evidence but this hearsay that, "The Court finds this as a fact" My question, fact based upon what evidence?

The record also says Venessa was quoting scripture and religious rhetoric. Again the court said "The Court finds this a fact" Once again what evidence?

Maybe Venessa's religious rhetoric that Mr. Mills did not like was "Thou Shalt not commit Adultery," to which he admitted under Court Room oath that he had broken the N.C. law against such activities.

The Grandmother said the child Dana looked fearful of her Mother, again the court ruled "The Court finds this as a fact" No evidence, just an elderly woman's gossip.

Over and over again family members gave nothing more than hearsay gossip to which "The Court finds as fact."

Shanna Winkler-Hanson gave her own estimation of the situation with no evidence other than her own hearsay opinion to which " The court finds this as fact." Again no evidence presented, simply her hyphenated opinion.

There was no evidence presented, simply disgruntled backslidden Church members looking to get back at a pastor who preached, "Thus sayeth the Lord".

Court Records again said, "The Court finds that at no time did Mr. Mills agree that home schooling would be permanent." The court did not "find" this, they simply took his word over hers.

This is a clear cut example of anti-religious people and an anti-religion Judge taking children away from a loving relationship and placing them in a hell hole of moving every week to please a husband who left his wife and children to have sex with his tennis partner.

The Court of God has and will find the facts not only with Mr. Mills but the Judge and gossip spreaders.

Even the Court said the children should have NO contact with the adulterous partner.

The court ruled that Venessa should be evaluated, how about Mr. Mills who admitted that he not only broke N.C. law but most important God's law by laying down with another woman to have sex. If the court is convinced that Mr. Mills will be a good Father, why did it rule "no contact with mistress?"

This is a clear-cut anti-Christian, anti-religion, and an anti-homeschool effort to take America's children away from Godly parents and schools.

Wiley Drake

Constitutional Injustice

In a recent newspaper article, Jeff Powell, a professor of constitutional law from Duke University, is quoted as saying, "The thing that really armors the judge's opinion against Constitutional criticism is that he expressly recognizes that the parties have the right to communicate their religion to the children."

Well, of course, Judge Mangum does state in his Temporary Order that both parents have the right to communicate and practice their religion. But then he's hardly going to say, "Hey, I know the Constitution guarantees freedom of religion, but I'm just going to ignore that and make an unconstitutional ruling here." After all, when was the last time any judge owned up to making a bad judgment while he was making it?

In the Civil War, both sides believed strongly that their cause was constitutional. Even before the issue of "state's rights," the South argued for years that slavery was protected by the Constitution. It took a tragic war and a bold amendment to the Constitution before justice prevailed. Many of the atrocities committed by the Nazis in Germany were done under the cover of being "legal" - and, again, it took a full-scale war and international outcry for justice to prevail.

What judges and professors often forget is that there can be a huge difference between the law and justice.

The problem here is that the rest of Judge Mangum's Order doesn't match up with his Constitutional "towing of the line." He removes three "thriving" children from Christian homeschool education, he orders a mental health evaluation on the mother with conservative Christian values (but not the liberal father), he prejudicially chooses to restrict the mother's financial support to a level intended to limit her ability to practice her religion, and on top of all that he fills his written Order with slanderous gossip specifically designed to demonize and invoke condemnation on the mother and her church. And these are just a few examples of the horrendous injustice of this case.

Professor Powell is also reported as saying that "the First Amendment does not relieve a citizen of having to comply with a law that 'incidentally' affects a religious practice." But which law states that a judge must send children to public school? Which law states that a judge must side with a liberal, adulterous husband against a conservative Christian mother? Which law states that a judge can drag an entire church through the mud in order to protect his own inconsistent and contradictory conclusions?

Make no mistake, it is not the "law" that is being applied in this case, but Judge Mangum's opinion. It is not any "law" that is affecting Venessa Mills' - or her children's - religious practice, but Judge Mangum's opinion. It is not justice that is at work here, but Judge Mangum's opinions. And, apparently, a judge's opinion in a divorce case is untouchable by the Constitution - and, apparently, also by the facts.

For everyone who wants to dismiss the wider implications of this case under cover of the argument that "it's just a divorce" - remember the words of a man who, at the time, was also attacked and villified by many people. "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere." -- Martin Luther King, Jr.

Under the cover of upholding the Constitution, Judge Mangum has, in fact, committed massive injustice. Professor Powell describes Judge Mangum's statement very accurately when he calls it "armor" that protects his "opinion." The armor may be good and solid, but all it does is protect a bad opinion - and that was never the intent of the Constitution.

One of the purposes of the Constitution, as directly stated in the Preamble, is to "establish justice." For Judge Mangum - or anyone else - to use the letter of the Constitution in a direct attack against the spirit of the Constitution is, by very definition, unconstitutional.

News&Observer Folllow Up

The News&Observer has published a follow up story, presenting a good overview of the different issues in Venessa Mills' case:


Saturday, March 21, 2009

WND: Playing God With Homeschoolers

WorldNetDaily has published a good editorial article based on the real issues of this case.


Friday, March 20, 2009

Some Facts the Judge Left Out

In his final written Order, Judge Mangum suddenly felt the need to quote extensively from affidavits submitted on behalf of Mr. Mills. Some of these affidavits were written by Venessa Mills' family and so-called friends, and some were written by ex-members of her church.

Of course, Judge Mangum did not quote from any of the rebuttal affidavits, but here are few facts that help to provide some perspective.

1. One affidavit was submitted by a former church member who lives in England and has no personal knowledge or connection with the Mills family whatsoever.

2. Another affidavit was submitted by a former church member who left the church around 20 years ago - and also has absolutely no personal knowledge of the Mills family.

3. Another affidavit was submitted by a former church member with a history of attacking her previous churches. She was pushed out of the church she attended before Sound Doctrine Church due to similar slanderous attacks. The pastor of Sound Doctrine Church was personally warned about this by her previous pastor.

4. Several of these ex-members have been engaged in a slander campaign against the church for years, including the creation of a fake MySpace website claiming to represent "Timothy Williams" and containing grossly false information - which was found to be clearly fraudulent and removed by MySpace management. Specific evidence of this, and other activities, was submitted to Judge Mangum.

5. Venessa Mills family and friends may have had minor, yet genuine, concerns based on their own misunderstanding or disagreement with Venessa's religious beliefs. However, when they came to write affidavits, they had all been influenced - either directly or indirectly - by the gossip and slander fed to them by this small group of former church members, or otherwise circulated on the internet. They must bear a responsibility of what they've done, but it is tragic to see them being used in such a calculating manner by former church members with their own agenda, and by Mr. Mills and his attorney with their own agenda.

However, despite being armed with these real facts, these were the affidavits that Judge Mangum conveniently found to be "most credible and informative" - and, moreover, went so far as to find as "fact." These gossip pieces were very thinly disguised as legal documents, but - after initially making no reference to them - Judge Mangum chose to select the most sensationalized quotes to feature in his final written Order.

We appreciate your continued support as Venessa Mills fights against the vicious slanders directed against her and her children, her religious beliefs, her church, and - not forgetting - her right to homeschool.

Want to help?

Many people have asked how to donate or send help and support to Venessa Mills. If you'd like to send gift cards for groceries, you can send anything care of her attorney:

Venessa Mills
c/o DWL&S Law
P.O. Drawer #1960
Smithfield, NC 27577

If you'd like to help support Venessa's legal costs, you can send donations directly to her attorney:

Kelly K. Daughtry
DWL&S Law
P.O. Drawer #1960
Smithfield, NC 27577

Or you can call 919-934-5012 and make a donation by credit card.

Please note that any checks or monetary donations should be made out directly to Venessa's attorney. Please don't send any money to Venessa - but, if you'd like to help her out with everyday needs, you can send gift cards for groceries to her at the address above.

Thank you again.

Thank You For Your Support

Judge Mangum has diverted the attention of many people with the deliberate "cult" scaremongering in his final written Order, and there are always people willing to jump on what one commenter on another website called a "witch-hunt."

However, I'm happy to report that most people are not so easily taken in - and the majority of feedback we are receiving, both publicly and privately, is still very positive and supportive. I want to take this opportunity again to thank everyone for their prayers, offers of support, and also for sharing their own stories. It is sad to discover how many other people have been through similar ordeals, whether with homeschool rights, custody issues, or even church's being slandered. But it's encouraging that they are willing to stand up with Venessa and support this fight for justice.

The Christian Action League has posted a good article summarizing the whole case.

Wiley Drake, former vice-president of the Southern Baptist Convention, has also taken up the cause on his e-mail list and radio show. Whether you agree with Pastor Drake's doctrine or not, he makes some good points about the judge's rulings in this case.


Thursday, March 19, 2009

The Three DIFFERENT Court Orders

On Friday, March 6th, Judge Ned Mangum issued his ruling for a Temporary Order in the divorce case of Venessa Mills and her husband. On March 17th, after some of his comments were made public and provoked outrage, he signed an actual Temporary Order which had been completely transformed in all aspects of its basis and findings of fact.

Here's a summary …

March 6th: The original ruling
  • Judge Mangum makes no mention of Sound Doctrine Church whatsoever.
  • He does make several ignorant and insensitive remarks about homeschool education, revealing a clear prejudice and wider threat to homeschool rights.
  • No particular weight is given to either side's affidavits and, on the mental health issue, the judge states clearly that he doesn't know and has come to no firm conclusion on the matter.
  • Despite many opportunities, no mention is made of any specific "concerns" arising from Venessa Mills religious beliefs, practices, or those of her church.
  • He makes several statements complimenting Venessa Mills on her educational accomplishments and how her children have benefitted from homeschool - yet then orders that they be placed in public school.

March 13th (approx): The order drafted by Mr. Mills' attorney, based on the verbal ruling
  • Sound Doctrine Church is mentioned in only two brief "findings of fact."
  • The wording is largely factual, and no specific negative statements are made about Venessa Mills' religious beliefs or practices, or those of her church. 
  • The "findings of fact" refer to Venessa Mills being a "good" and "nurturing" mother who has done a "good job" of homeschooling the children. 
  • No expansion is provided to further explain the order of a mental health evaluation for Venessa Mills.
  • Minimal censure of Mr. Mills' adultery is left intact, along with the important admission that he had spent time with his mistress "when he could have been spending times with the children."
  • On the homeschool issue, the order still states that the children should go to public school purely for the "broader focus and socialization available to them." No other concerns are mentioned.

March 17th: The final written Temporary Order by Judge Mangum
  • The "findings of fact" have been drastically expanded by the addition of four pages of carefully selected quotations and negative statements directly intended to demonize Sound Doctrine Church.
  • While affidavits supporting Mr. Mills are quoted extensively, no rebuttal affidavits from Venessa Mills are quoted at all.
  • Suddenly, vast weight is placed on the testimony of Venessa Mills so-called friends and family, and other individuals who have never even met her or her children, but absolutely no weight at all is given to opposing affidavits. 
  • Judge Mangum's indiscreet remarks about homeschooling have been either completely removed, directly denied, or attributed to Mr. Mills.
  • Specific censure from the Court regarding Mr. Mills' adultery has been removed and the entire affair softened so as to suggest blame being attributed to Venessa Mills. Any mention of Mr. Mills spending time with his mistress instead of the children is removed.
  • Specific attention is drawn to Venessa Mills' supposedly "unreasonable" demands, with no reference to the huge emotional distress she was enduring and the lack of sufficient time and peace to negotiate any agreement or mount an adequate defense.

The order drafted by Mr. Mills' attorney is important because it is based on her understanding of Judge Mangum's verbal ruling. Coming from the opposing attorney, if there had been anything in Judge Mangum's comments to suggest a stronger indictment of Venessa Mills, it would not have been ignored. Indeed, she took the opportunity to insert an outrageous clause asking that Mr. Mills be allowed to use Venessa Mills' child support to pay the home mortgage if she failed to make the payment herself.

But, after massive public outcry over the homeschool issues, Judge Mangum pulled the deadline onto a Sunday and then obviously drafted his own Order.

And now what is everyone talking about? The homeschool issues? No - although we're still trying. But many people have now been completely taken in by the sensationalized and slanderous gossip about Venessa Mills' church allegedly being a "cult." The homeschool issues have been dropped, in favor of spreading the "choice morsels" of gossip - which most people are all too eager to consume with no discernment or discrimination.

The vicious comments that have been submitted to this blog - which I make no apology for rejecting - have been appalling to see.

We have to hand it to Judge Mangum, he's done an excellent job - of diverting attention away from himself and the massive injustice that is being done to Venessa Mills and her children. In doing so, he has perpetrated a brutal hatchet job on the character of a good homeschool mother, her three children, and a small conservative church on the other side of the country.

Various other news sources have already published Judge Mangum's final Order. Far from being disappointed or dismayed, we are glad that the case files are publicly available - and, in fact, we sent the PDF to several of those sources ourselves.

We are now making all three versions of Judge Mangum's Order available to download together. Listen to Judge Mangum's original judgment, then read the Order drafted from that by Mr. Mills' attorney, and then read his final written Order - compare them yourself.

It is very clear what is going on here - and it's not justice in any sense of the word.


Gossip and the Gospel

Judge Mangum's final order pulls three children out of homeschool and forces them into public school. In order to justify this action, the judge included several pages of material related to Venessa Mills' church, Sound Doctrine. This material consisted entirely of malicious gossip, insinuation, and slander.

Gossip is a fire that can't be put out by continuing to feed it. The more you attack it, the larger and faster it grows. I'm not going to engage in a debate over the validity of the religious beliefs of Venessa Mills, myself, or Sound Doctrine Church. That's not what this blog is for.

If you are interested in the truth, you can visit Sound Doctrine Church's website for yourself.

They have made available for FREE download the book "Gossip and the Gospel" - written by former pastor Timothy Williams five years ago. Whether you're a Christian or a non-Christian, you should read it before making any more statements that you may later regret.

We'll continue to focus on the homeschool issues and the legal fight for justice in Venessa's case.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Trial By Gossip

WorldNetDaily has posted a more in-depth follow up now that the judge has signed the final Temporary Order.

Here's our response:

This website is called "Homeschool Injustice" and that is our focus - homeschool and injustice. We are not going to be distracted from that. The truth of the injustices we have highlighted was emphatically proved today by Judge Mangum's order.

This is certainly a time when you find out who your real friends are. Gossip is a dangerous thing and we're well aware that there are those who will be taken in by it.

Proverbs 18:8 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels; they go down to a man's inmost parts.

No matter what the provocation, we don't feel it's right at this time to be drawn into a mud-slinging match that would require us to expose individuals who may eventually, by God's grace, repent.

But, if you think you know all the facts, consider just these few things:
  • Timothy Williams and his wife have been in ministry for over 30 years, but retired from church ministry four years ago.
  • All three of their children went to public school, as have many other children in their church.
Sound Doctrine Church is getting legal advice regarding their options at this point.

Now that the judge has finally signed the Temporary Order, we'll be working with Venessa's new attorney and, just as we did originally, giving the legal process another chance. As we do that, updates on this blog will be less frequent, but keep checking back as we'll keep posting on our progress in the fight for truth and justice.

Massive Cover Up By Judge Mangum

We have just received the final Temporary Order as prepared and signed by Judge Mangum.

Here are the bottom lines:

1. The wording is substantially different from the order that was drafted and submitted last week by Mr. Mills' attorney.

2. The wording is substantially different from the verbal ruling given by Judge Mangum on March 6th.

3. Almost all of the judge's most revealing remarks about homeschooling have been removed.

4. All of the positive findings regarding Venessa Mills' mothering and homeschooling have been removed or qualified.

5. A large amount of additional material has been added directly from affidavits submitted on behalf of Mr. Mills - all of which focus on a slanderous attack against Venessa Mills' church and religious beliefs. None of this was alluded to in the judge's verbal ruling, or in the order drafted before this case went public.

6. No material is included from the rebuttal affidavits submitted on behalf of Venessa Mills that show the allegations against her and her church to be completely false and ridiculous.

7. The entire document has been changed by Judge Mangum in order to defend himself and destroy the character and credibility of Venessa Mills.

8. The whole Order is blatantly intended to shift the focus away from the issues of justice regarding homeschooling, financial support, and adultery - and instead use "shock and awe" tactics to pull attention into a mudslinging free-for-all against Venessa Mills' church and religious beliefs.

This kind of result was not totally unexpected, but the sheer bold-faced scale of it is incredible!

We'll be posting more once we have the chance to fully review everything and seek legal advice.

Attorney Selects Pro-Father Custody Evaluator

Although Judge Mangum stated in his ruling on Friday, March 6th, that Venessa Mills shouldn't look at his judgment as a "win or lose" situation, it is normal in such cases for the "winning" attorney to draw up the provisional Court Order for the judge to review and sign. Unremarkably, it was Mr. Mills' attorney, Jaye Meyer, who drafted the Order - so much for "no winners or losers."

At the weekend, Ms. Meyer submitted an amended provisional order to Judge Mangum containing an extra detail:

"The Court orders that there shall be a comprehensive custody evaluation of the parties and the children, to begin as soon as reasonably possible. The Court appoints Dr. Helen Brantley and her team at the UNC Forensic Psychiatry Service as the custody evaluator."

It's important to understand that, on March 6th, Judge Mangum made no decision as to who should be appointed to conduct the custody evaluation. This was left to the attorneys to "agree" upon. Ms. Meyer selected Dr. Helen Brantley and her team at UNC. Venessa Mills' attorney objected, did not agree, and provided an alternative. The provisional order submitted to Judge Mangum states that the Court appoints ... Dr. Helen Brantley and her team at UNC.

Can anyone guess who Judge Mangum's going to go with?

But why did Mr. Mills' attorney want Dr. Brantley at UNC? Why is Judge Mangum so likely to accept that choice? Is it because they are both honestly concerned with the best, most balanced, unprejudiced, and truthful evaluation possible?

Or could it be because, in legal circles, "Dr. Brantley and her team at UNC" is well-known to be distinctly pro-father and biased towards "evidence" supporting that position? Is it because the evaluation process at UNC does not allow for external evidence to even be taken into account - meaning that no-one else can testify on behalf of the parents. In Mr. Mills case, this means that his friend can't tell the evaluators what a good father he is. In Venessa Mills case, this means that none of her friends, family, church family, extended church family, or members of her homeschool groups can provide any input whatsoever into how good a mother she is and how well-balanced and happy her children are.

Make no mistake. This choice was not made by Mr. Mills' attorney in the interest of justice. It was a cold, calculated choice made in the interest of kicking Venessa Mills while she's down.

Judge Mangum allows Venessa's adulterous husband to remain in the family home for months after divorce was filed, he denies her adequate financial support, he orders her children uprooted from homeschool and placed into public school, he imposes a totally disruptive and incohesive "temporary" custody arrangement, he orders only her to undergo a mental health evaluation, and he orders a custody evaluation. Then Mr. Mills' attorney comes in with "Dr. Brantley and her team at UNC" - who are well-known for their "impartial" pro-father evaluations. The intention and effect is all too clear.

If this were a sporting contest, the spectators would be complaining that the result was rigged.

Venessa Mills is not asking for the children's father to be cut out of their lives. She isn't asking for all her husband's money or income. She isn't asking for sole custody or control. She isn't asking for anything beyond what thousands of other mothers have received from judges who actually do their jobs and serve justice. She isn't asking for anything that's not in the best interests of the children, as supported by solid evidence. She isn't asking that Mr. Mills' attorney do a bad job defending her client. She isn't asking for her husband to be treated unjustly.

Venessa Mills is asking for justice. She's asking that this case be judged on the facts. She's asking that decisions be made in the best interests of her children, not based on ignorance, prejudice or slander. She's asking that her rights - both legally and morally - as a mother be respected. She's asking that she be allowed the time, support, and protection to present her case. She's asking that her children be treated like human beings and not laboratory mice. She's asking that the American legal system function, as it was intended to, not upon the laws of men but the laws of God. She's asking that attorneys and judges alike uphold the words of Abraham Lincoln and do their jobs honestly and fairly, or not at all.

"Let no young man choosing the law for a calling for a moment yield to the popular belief - resolve to be honest at all events; and if in your own judgment you cannot be an honest lawyer, resolve to be honest without being a lawyer." --Abraham Lincoln: July 1, 1850

"They make ready their tongue like a bow, to shoot lies; it is not by truth that they triumph in the land. They go from one sin to another; they do not acknowledge me," declares the LORD." -- Jeremiah 9:3

Whether you agree with Lincoln or the Bible, whether you are a Christian or of another belief, whether you are a conservative or a liberal, you should share a concern that justice should be done, should be seen to be done, and should be done on the basis of truth and nothing but the truth.

Venessa Mills may be down, but she's not out. Help her fight for justice by taking ACTION now.

Governor Issues Homeschool Proclamation

The following proclamation was made by North Carolina Governor Beverly Perdue on March 5th - ironically, only one day before Judge Ned Mangum ordered Venessa Mills' children into public school to receive a more "balanced" education.

"WHEREAS, the State of North Carolina is committed to excellence in education and to public policy that strengthens the family; and

WHEREAS, the State of North Carolina recognizes parental choice in pursuit of that excellence and the importance of parental involvement in education; and

WHEREAS, the State of North Carolina appropriately and statutorily recognizes home education as a viable educational alternative; and

WHEREAS, parents have the ultimate authority and responsibility for the care, upbringing and choice of education for their children; and

WHEREAS, it is appropriate that North Carolina home educators and home educated children be recognized and celebrated for their contributions to the diversity and quality of education in this great State;

NOW, THEREFORE, I, BEVERLY EAVES PERDUE, Governor of the State of North Carolina, do hereby proclaim March 22-28, 2009, as "HOME EDUCATION WEEK" in North Carolina and call upon all citizens of this State to observe this week and recognize the continued growth and importance of home education in the State of North Carolina.

BEVERLY EAVES PERDUE"


Maybe Judge Mangum wasn't aware of Governor Perdue's sentiments at the time of his decision in the Mills' case - but that doesn't excuse him from also being unaware of the truth about homeschooling, or usurping the mother's rights, or handling a case in a manner that rings of injustice in every aspect. 

Of course, some have argued that this is a divorce and the parents could not agree, so Judge Mangum was forced to make a decision. Obviously, that's true. But, if the roles were reversed, does anyone honestly think that Judge Mangum would have ordered that the children be homeschooled in order to provide an alternative to public school? If it were the mother who had committed adultery, does anyone honestly think that the father would have been the only one ordered to get a mental health evaluation?

Legal, medical, and psychological precedent - not to mention common sense - all catagorically point to the best interests of the children being best served by preserving as much of the status quo as possible - especially in what is supposed to be only a "temporary" order. What's "temporary" about ripping three well-balanced children out of a safe, stable homeschooling environment - in which the judge admitted they were "thriving" - and forcing them into public school?

Even if Venessa Mills appeals, even if she fights this all the way to the Supreme Court, the damage has already been done by Judge Mangum's unilateral "temporary" order.

Judge Mangum's actions towards Venessa Mills and her children demonstrate that he is simply toying with people's lives, and experimenting on perfectly well-balanced children, instead of doing his job and serving justice.

Deuteronomy 16:20 Follow justice and justice alone, so that you may live and possess the land the LORD your God is giving you.

It would be apt if Home Education Week in North Carolina, as proclaimed by Governor Perdue, was the week in which Venessa Mills received justice. The question is; is the governor all talk? Making proclamations is one thing, but what about stepping in to defend the rights of a parent, a homeschool mother, her three children, and thousands of other homeschooling families?

Tell Governor Perdue to practice what she preaches; if she can't do anything else, she should stand in protest outside Judge Mangum's office along with every other judge, attorney, and concerned citizen who cares about justice.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Poll: Should students be forced to attend public school?

The myNC.com website is running a poll with the question, "Should students be forced to attend public schools?"

Homeschool Liberty

Another concerned parent has started a website dedicated to taking ACTION to protect homeschool rights, based on the injustice highlighted in Venessa Mills' case.

Some people have made comments dismissing this as not being about homeschool, but the facts say otherwise. Whatever your opinion on Venessa Mills' divorce, or even her religious beliefs, it does not affect the clear and irrefutable evidence on the homeschool issue. Enough legal expertise has been provided (in comments and on other websites) to demonstrate that this is an issue you can't afford to ignore.

Please join the Homeschool Liberty website and help to fight against injustice and fight for your homeschool rights. It's going to take ACTION, not just words.

More Details: Blog Interview

The blog, Right on the Right, has published a story including more details from an interview with Venessa:


Thank You

Thank you again to everyone who is leaving supportive comments (or even contributing to a genuine debate), and emailing me with advice or offers of help.

Obviously, I am very busy at the moment trying to draw attention to this injustice and helping Venessa find new legal representation that will stand by her to the end. But I will be replying to everything as soon as I can.

Venessa is receiving great support from her church family and from the homeschool community and, above all, from God. She really appreciates everyone who has taken action to contact the authorities and make a stand for justice.

We are currently waiting to see if Judge Mangum will give us more time to submit proper objections to the original order, or if he will continue to take advantage of his power to sign an unjust temporary order that cannot be appealed.

Updates will be posted here as soon as I can.

This is not over, and we will keep fighting for what's right.

Sunday, March 15, 2009

WorldNetDaily Follows Up

WorldNetDaily has just posted another follow up on this case at the top of their homepage.


Appeals Are Not Very Appealing

As far as the legal system is concerned, temporary orders in divorce cases are black holes that don't exist. All the information we have received indicates that you CANNOT appeal against temporary orders. This makes them perfect for slipping in the kinds of injustices and denial of rights that are happening in Venessa Mills' case. Judge Mangum and the attorneys know this full well, and are taking advantage of it.

It could be years before a permanent order is in place and an appeal can even be started. In the meantime, Judge Mangum can get away with whatever ruling he chooses to issue, for whatever reasons, with no consequences to himself. By the time Venessa Mills has the means or opportunity to appeal these judgments, her children will already be uprooted, placed in public school, and bounced back and forth between both parents in a damaging custody schedule.

Some people have said that Venessa should appeal this decision. Don't worry, we'll be fighting this in whatever way we can. But we need to understand the fundamental flaws of our legal system that this case so effectively highlights.

The appeal process is, in itself, an acknowledgment that the system is defective. It is a dodge for judges to hide their bad or lazy decisions behind, a way of shirking responsibility by saying, "I could be wrong, but someone else can deal with that while you suffer under my bad judgment." In the medical field, there are no "appeals." If a surgeon makes a bad decision or is incompetent in his job, people can literally die. No-one would tolerate the kind of "if you don't agree, just appeal" attitude that prevails in the legal system. Whatever happened to getting it right the first time? Whatever happened to basic accountability?

If the appeal system was actually fair, the state would have to pay for all the costs of the first trial if the judge was proved to be wrong. After all, by the time people pay for attorneys and court costs for a long, drawn-out trial, where are they supposed to come up with the money for a probably-even-more-lengthy appeal process??

If, after reading 50 affidavits, Judge Mangum can't make conclusions of law based on the findings of fact; if, after hearing testimony from Venessa Mills and reading all the submitted evidence, Judge Mangum cannot determine that she is not "brainwashed" and has to order a mental evaluation "just because the issue was brought up," then what is he doing on the bench? Isn't the job of a judge to make judgments? Isn't his job to make judgments based on the facts rather than legislating his own opinions from the bench?

Some might say that judges have tough jobs. True enough, but there are already over 200 years of legal precedent to guide judges in their responsibilities - basic things like "due process," "probable cause," "innocent until proven guilty," "reasonable doubt," etc. If all of these things can be ignored by a judge in a divorce case issuing temporary orders, then what is the hope for an appeal? Slavery was "appealed" for years - and it eventually took a civil war to settle the matter.

If judges, attorneys, law-makers, senators, and governors are not prepared to stand up NOW for Venessa Mills and put right this injustice, then what hope does she have of winning an appeal. The facts and the truth do not change. If Judge Mangum can so easily ignore them, then so can others.

Someone with authority needs to take action NOW before this travesty of justice is allowed to continue any longer. If nothing is done, and Venessa Mills' children become unbalanced in public school, or fall victim to drugs, crime, or other abuse, then Judge Mangum needs to be held fully accountable.

The job of judges and attorneys should be to polish justice and make it shine, not leave it in their closet to get rusty while they go to the office.

We will keep fighting for justice, and we ask you to join us.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Senator Agrees Judge Mangum's Decision Was "Terrible"

A commenter on this blog contacted Senator Neal Hunt using our Action Page, and received this reply:

"... based on the facts as I understand them I agree the judges decision makes absolutely no sense. 

Neal Hunt
Deputy Republican Senate Leader"

And another individual received this reply:

"I agree, this was a terrible decision. Hopefully an appeal will reverse the decision.

Neal Hunt
Deputy Republican Senate Leader"

He's right. It is a terrible decision. But "hopefully an appeal will reverse" it?? What a cop out from a state official!! What is HE going to do about it NOW, before Venessa Mills' children are sent to public school and their whole lives disrupted by Judge Mangum's multiple-malignant orders?


Neal Hunt
Deputy Republican Senate Leader
District 15 (Wake County)
Legislative Office: 919/733-5850
Business Office: 919/781-3464

USA Today covers homeschooling

Good USA Today article on homeschooling from earlier this month.

Why not fax it or e-mail it to Judge Mangum and his superiors?

Check out our In The News links (at the bottom of the right-hand column) for more links to websites covering this case.

Milk or Justice

While this blog focuses on the injustice towards Venessa Mills' (and others) homeschooling rights, we are not pretending that this issue is entirely separated from a very difficult divorce. There are other and bigger issues of justice here. People easily dismiss divorces with cynical or judgmental comments - but injustice in a divorce case is no less injustice. Legal torture in a divorce case is no less than in any other - in fact, usually it is much worse.

Today, Venessa Mills had to make powdered milk for herself and her children. Her husband, remaining in the family home for the entire divorce proceeding up until now (he is supposedly moving out on Sunday 15th March), continues to control the purse-strings. Venessa has had to submit household bills to him, hoping that he will provide the money - which he has previously tried to withhold or shortchanged. Naturally, this puts Venessa in a prime position to be badgered, manipulated, and worn down in Mr. Mills' money-controlled powerplays - and leaves the children in the middle.

Is Venessa Mills keeping the children from her husband? Not at all. Today, as Venessa made powdered milk, Mr. Mills took the children out for the day - lunch, and other activities. Apparently, he has money for these things on "his time" - but not to buy milk for the family.

Mr. Mills - on a more than six figure income - lavishes hundreds of dollars an hour on his attorney to defend him from the consequences of adultery while mudslinging and slandering his wife, her religious beliefs, her church, and the teachings of the Bible. He has spent over $21,000 so far to protect his boat and so that his attorney and their non-expert "witnesses" can attack a woman that he describes as a "good mother" and doing a "good job" in homeschooling.

And for every dollar than Mr. Mills spends on his attorney, Venessa Mills - a homeschool mother who has devoted herself to raising and educating her children - is forced to find the money for her own legal defense. For every day and hour that Judge Mangum drags this process out with personal schedule-changes, evaluations, delays, and unjust decisions, Venessa Mills has to endure more emotional distress and more financial hardship.

But Mr. Mills' attorney had the effrontery to complain in court that Venessa Mills was spending money to defend herself against the slanderous accusations that Mr. Mills was bringing against her.
  • Did Judge Mangum act to ensure that Venessa Mills could buy milk, let alone mount a proper defense? No.
  • Is Judge Mangum concerned that Venessa and her children have been subjected to this kind of treatment throughout the proceedings? No.
  • Did Judge Mangum consider the emotional distress caused by having an adulterous husband continue to live in the family home in the midst of a divorce? No.
  • Did Judge Mangum stop to think that ordering a mental evaluation under such conditions is completely unfair and setting Venessa up for failure? No.
How about Judge Mangum going out to buy Venessa Mills and her children some milk? How about Mr. Mills' attorney going out to buy Venessa Mills and her children some milk? If you think these are unrealistic suggestions that would never happen, it's only because our ideas of "justice" have become so warped.

Venessa's closest friends have already had to support her in this effort to publicize the injustice that she is suffering, and continue to support her wherever possible in everyday needs. But, when she goes home, she finds no milk and no money to buy any from her husband.

When Mr. Mills finally moves out of the family home, Venessa Mills' situation will be no better. See this page for the financial position that Judge Mangum is leaving her in.

I'd like everyone reading this to consider sending gift cards that can be used to buy groceries and everyday essentials. If you might be interested in helping out in this way, please contact me by e-mail at homeschool.injustice[at]gmail.com as we are in process of making arrangements.

In the meantime, fax Judge Mangum, his supervisors, and the state officials who should be doing something about this, and tell them to buy some milk for Venessa Mills and her children!

Twisted Facts

In an admittedly messy divorce, the issues of justice can easily get lost - especially by those who have an interest in upholding injustice for their own ends.

I'm posting the following messages because they are a perfect example of how the facts are being twisted by Mr. Mills, his associates, and his attorney, in an effort to divert away from the REAL ISSUES.

This (clearly unbiased!) message was left on the News&Observer website:

"I am extremely disturbed by how public this is becoming as Mrs. Mills is using the homeschooling issue to actually coverup all the other issues that were presented during ALL of the hearings. I was directed to this site from the blog that Mrs Mills friend Robyn Williams started a couple of days ago. I have tried posting rebutals to some of her information on her blog not involving the homeschool issue and they aren't getting posted as I site specifics. In one of her recent blogs she states that just yesterday, Mr. Mills sent her a message demanding that she come home. I tried to post exactly what I am about to say here but it never appeared on her blog. Mr. Mills did request that his wife come back home as it was their youngest sons birthday and she was alienating Mr. Mills from spending time with his child on his special day. She did not come home and Mr. Mills was unable to spend time with him."

Look at the comments on this blog and you'll find quite a number of dissenting opinions and opposing viewpoints. There have been very healthy debates going on in the comment sections, and we're not avoiding that. Not to mention, that (whoever you are) your message is obviously being posted here now.

This individual claims that Venessa Mills is "alienating Mr. Mills from spending time with his child on his special day." Of course, she has just as much right to observe their son's birthday according to her beliefs as he does to his. So where does that leave us?

Perhaps Mr. Mills forgot that they were in the middle of a divorce? Perhaps he also forgot that his soon-to-be-ex wife is in the middle of a fight against an unjust Court ruling that will leave her stripped of her rights and in impossible financial straits. Perhaps he's forgotten that he committed adultery, has constantly badgered his wife about her religious beliefs, and refused to leave the family home during the divorce proceedings? Or perhaps Mr. Mills simply expects that, in the midst of all this, his wife will come running home whenever he demands it so that he can have some "special time" with his son. Sorry, but how is this in any way reasonable??

What arrangements did Mr. Mills make before he sent the message demanding that they "come home?" Did he make his plans or wishes known in advance? Did he come to an agreement that would allow both parents' rights to be respected, and allow them both reasonable time with the children? Apparently, all that counts is that Mr. Mills gets what he wants whenever he wants it.

Venessa Mills is not "alienating" her children from their father. She's not trying to cut him out of their lives completely. She is busy fighting for justice and defending herself and her children from the position that Mr. Mills has put them in. Even being treated with some common courtesy would be a step forward.

The children spent the day with their father today. How "alienating!"

Also, someone going by "igotyourbackbro" posted this message on the same website:

"Do you know that Mrs. Mills chooses to teach her children strictly from the Bible? And your OK with that? Her children believe that the earth is only 6 thousand years old even though carbon dating proves that wrong. My point here is simply this....If you take the teachings of the Sound Doctrine CULT out of these children's curriculum, then there is no issue at all and the homeschooling could continue. Mr. Mills is NOT alright with that aspect and when he approached his wife about it that's when they could not see eye to eye on things and had to have a judge look at the entire case, not just the homeschooling side of it, and render a fair and just ruling."

In response, I'll simply quote a reply from the same website:

"igotyourbackbro, are you kidding? So anyone who believes in creation or the Bible is in a CULT now??? Maybe you're not aware of just how many people still believe in the Bible, or how carbon dating has been proved not to prove anything. Unbelievable!! So you're saying that all the mother had to do was completely deny her religious beliefs, cut herself off from her church, remove the Bible from the children's teaching, and then Mr. Mills would have been fine with the homeschooling? Wow, how reasonable! She's clearly a fruitcake for refusing to do it! (big sarcasm) And so they only had to take it to the judge when she refused his totally "reasonable" homeschooling demands? The adultery had nothing to do with it, I suppose??? You honestly think anyone's going to buy that??"

I hate to even be distracted by these kind of issues, but it should give anyone reading here an idea of all the other mudslinging that Venessa Mills is having to deal with while she fights for her rights to freedom of religion, to homeschool her children, and to have a judge give her a fair hearing based on the facts and the evidence instead of personal agendas, prejudice, and bigotry.

Judge Mangum and Mr. Mills both acknowledged that Venessa Mills is a "good mother" and that the children are "thriving" under her homeschooling, yet her and her children's whole world is being turned upside down. And the response from Mr. Mills' supporters is petty comments about birthdays and false accusations of "alienating."

Let's focus on the REAL ISSUES, and take some REAL ACTION to stop injustice - not just for Venessa Mills, but for everyone else who is, has been, or will be, in a similar situation.

News Follow Ups

The News & Observer newspaper in North Carolina has published a follow-up story on-line.


Venessa Mills only has until Sunday (that's tomorrow) to submit objections before Judge Mangum signs the Order. The facts and evidence have not changed. Understandably, we are not confident that Judge Mangum will pay any more attention to them now than he did originally.

Please review the information on this website and continue to take personal action in support of Venessa and her children, in support of justice, and in support of everyone's rights.



Good article on LifeSiteNews.

HSLDA

Many of the comments here have brought up the HSLDA - Homeschool Legal Defense Association - and urged us to contact them.

Venessa Mills is a member of HSLDA, and they have been aware of this case for some time.

However, they are not willing to become involved or take any action because this is a divorce/custody case. They explain their general reasons in a FAQ on their website.

They have obviously given the matter serious consideration, but I think their position is a mistake. More and more homseschooling rulings are going to start becoming part of divorce/custody cases, and these will all set dangerous precedents and build together to undermine homeschooling rights. To ignore these cases is to allow opponents of homeschool rights a free hand to blindside many more people where they are totally unprotected.

For a spokesperson from the HSLDA to dismiss this as just a tragedy of divorce, and say "we don't see any broad implications" is a completely incomprehensible, head-in-the-sand response.

I appreciate all that the HSLDA does and I would still recommend anyone who homeschools to be a member of HSLDA - but it's important to be warned that they will NOT help in cases involving divorce and custody.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Clarification of Homeschool Issue

A few comments have mentioned that this is a custody case, and so the homeschool issue is not as clear-cut as in other cases where both parents want the children to be homeschooled and the judge overrules that. It's a good point to raise, but there are several responses:

1. In this case, the father wants the children to go to public school. Of course, he has the right to state his wishes and to have them considered, but he has presented no legitimate evidence to support his request or demonstrate that it would be in the children's best interest.

2. The mother wants to continue homeschooling the children. They have been homeschooled for the last four years and, by the admission of both the father and the Court, have done very well and "thrived."

3. If both the mother and father have equal right to decide on the children's education, and they cannot agree, then the judge must make a decision. The issue is not whether he sides with the father or the mother, but that his decision is based on the facts at hand and, above all, what is in the best interest of the children. Although Judge Mangum claims to have made his decision on just that basis, the evidence does not support that claim.
  • His views on homeschooling are not justified, not supported by any evidence, and reveal a lack of understanding and reliance on false stereotypes.
  • In any situation where there is a similar dispute, normal precedent would be to continue the status quo unless there is strong evidence to support a change.
  • In this case, the status quo is for the mother to continue homeschooling and, again, both the judge and the father acknowledge that the children are benefitting from homeschooling and the mother is doing a good job.
  • The judge's claim that both parents never mutually agreed to homeschooling is bogus. The children have been homeschooled for the last four years. Did the father only recently discover that fact?? Why is he only now making an issue of it? Why would he acknowledge that his children are doing well in homeschool, but then want them to be placed in public school??
  • Is it really in children's best interest to be pulled out of homeschool and thrown into public school? I wonder if Judge Mangum is fully aware of the moral state of our public schools?
Certainly, the custody and divorce issues in this case present superficial complications - but the heart of the matter is that, against all the evidence and without any attempt to prove why he considers it in the "best interest of the children," Judge Mangum has ordered three homeschooled children to be uprooted and placed in public school, regardless of their own wishes or their mother's.

What's more important? To satisfy some philosophical or idealogical "rule" to give equal time to both parents? Or to allow the children to continue to thrive, to receive the best possible education, and to be taught strong moral values? What is really "in the best interests of the children" here?

The fact that this is not a blatant overruling of both parents' rights makes this case all the more dangerous - because many people will find it too easy to dismiss as "just a custody issue" or "just a messy divorce."

Judges have already tried and failed to assault parents' right to homeschool head-on. Don't let them get away with slipping it in under cover of a divorce case!

Basic Justice - Violation of Due Process

When a judge deliberately keeps an individual in a stressful, hostile environment, constantly moves the parameters and requirements, and then dispenses arbitrary "justice" based purely on unsubstantiated allegations and personal opinions - isn't that a violation of due process?

How is a person expected to adequately defend themselves under such circumstances?

If a judge said that he was going to throw out everything that was inadmissable, irrelevant, or hearsay, but then in the end orders a mental health assessment simply because the accusation was made - isn't that a violation of due process?

Isn't there such a thing as "probable cause?" If the police want to enter a private residence, don't they need to have at least "probable cause" that a crime is being committed? Shouldn't the same principle be applied?

Judge Mangum implied that he would give no credence to irrelevant or hearsay "evidence." No other evidence existed to support - even remotely - the allegation that Venessa Mills was somehow "brainwashed." How was she supposed to defend herself against nothing?

But then Judge Mangum orders a mental health assessment of Venessa Mills - stating that he was doing so purely because the allegation had been raised. "They allege, you deny" is what he repeated. He stated that this is what he would order in response to any similar allegation - so all that was needed was an allegation of drug abuse, or alcohol abuse, or physical abuse, and he would also have ordered assessments for all of those things - without one shred of supporting evidence or "probable cause."

All because Judge Mangum can't make a simple judgment to ignore obvious gossip, slander, and distraction from the real issues at hand. Isn't that his job??

And Venessa Mills has to pay for 50% of this costly process, not to mention enduring the stress of the whole thing at the same time as fighting a legal battle for her rights to homeschool and her religious beliefs.

I'm not a lawyer, and I don't pretend to understand all the legal terminology and correct usage - but I know when something's not right, and this is not right.

This is a travesty of justice that will end up affecting MORE people than just Venessa Mills.

You can help! Take action now to draw attention to this injustice and prejudice, and demand Judge Mangum be removed from this case!

Judge Starting Cover Up

From several sources, we are hearing that Judge Mangum is trying to push forward to sign this Order quickly.

Apparently, he's even working on Sunday and asking for objections to be submitted to him by Sunday - presumably so that he can sign the Order on Monday without any further interference. Obviously, based on this judge's record, we are not confident that the objections will have any effect.

This is now the third deadline Venessa has received from this judge!

Additionally, we've been advised that Judge Mangum is probably receiving advice from other judges or officials to remove all religious wording or statements of opinion from the final Order. This makes the Order much harder to challenge, as what Judge Mangum said in court is apparently inadmissable - the only thing that counts legally is the wording of the actual Order.

If this is the case, it means that Judge Mangum can slip this order through over the weekend, while protecting himself and making it almost impossible for Venessa Mills to appeal or challenge the decision in any way!

This is a whitewash and a cover up. Anything that Venessa Mills says can be used against her - but anything the judge says can be ignored as long as it is not written in the actual Order. Thus, there is no way to challenge his motivation or the basis in fact for his decisions.

If this isn't unethical, we don't know what is.

If anyone has any legal advice or insight into these developments, please leave a comment and let us know.

Alan Keyes Blog


Read the blog article by former Presidential candidate, Alan Keyes.

The Bigger Picture - Legal Torture

Everyone knows that going through a divorce is hard on everyone involved. Many of the comments left on this blog reveal stories of similar trauma and stress. The truth is that going through ANY kind of legal proceeding is a torturous experience - and the more serious and significant the issue, the worse it gets.

There's something incredibly wrong with this picture!

Divorces are never easy - but surely it's not a judge's job to make this harder on everyone? Surely a judge should not be allowed to impose rulings that inflict even more stress and emotional turmoil? Surely a judge should not evade his own responsibility to make logical and fair judgments by pressurizing people who obviously don't agree to make his job easier by agreeing to a miserable compromise?

The legal system inflicts torture on those who come to it seeking help, seeking justice, or simply seeking a clear judgment.

In this case, every action of Judge Mangum resulted in the creation of a hostile environment for everyone involved, while he shuffled back and forth and did whatever he could to avoid making any judgment at all. And then, when the judgment finally came, it was completely inconsistent and contrary to all the facts.

Venessa Mills and her husband strongly disagree in their religious beliefs. They strongly disagree on the best form of education for their children. They strongly disagree on what would constitute an appropriate custody and visitation schedule. They strongly disagree on the seriousness of adultery. They strongly disagree on what should be considered a fair financial and support arrangement. Obviously, this does not allow for peace in the home, it is not best for the children - and hence they are getting divorced. This, in itself, is nothing new or extraordinary.

In the light of all that, do Judge Mangum's actions make any sense?
  • Judge Mangum allowed the husband to remain in the family home throughout the entire duration of the preliminary divorce proceedings.
  • Judge Mangum specifically stated that he was not going to order Mr. Mills to get out of the house or give any deadline for this to happen - leaving it entirely up to Mr. Mills. In the meantime, Mr. Mills continues to play tennis with his "friend."
  • Judge Mangum allowed Mr. Mills to use his leaving the home as a bargaining tool to pressurize Venessa Mills to agree to his own terms for property settlement.
  • Judge Mangum put Venessa Mills in the position of having to depend completely on her adulterous husband, whom she has to submit all household bills to in order to feed her family.
  • Judge Mangum exposed her to constant badgering and emotional manipulation, persistent attempts to undermine and ridicule her religious beliefs and even her mental health - all while continuing to homeschool her children and attempt to protect them from the turmoil all around them.
And, under all these circumstances, Venessa Mills has to fight a legal battle, not just against her husband, but against the entire court system - and defend her right to homeschool, her own sanity, her religious beliefs, and her love for her children. Such treatment certainly allows anyone who opposes her to make her look "unreasonable" - because the situation she has been forced into is unreasonable!

Only yesterday, Venessa received a message from her husband demanding that she "come home" immediately. Under the circumstances, would you want to go home??

Whether you support Venessa, or even if you agree with her husband, would YOU want to be treated this way??

Isn't the legal system supposed to "defend and protect"? Isn't it supposed to provide a safe and calm environment so that both sides can have the freedom to present their case clearly and without obstruction?? Isn't it supposed to deliver judgments based on the facts that bring matters to a clear conclusion rather than prolonging the agony for all involved??

This is not just about homeschooling. It's not just about this case. Anyone who has been in a similar position will know exactly what we're talking about!

The entire basis of today's legal system in America is not justice - it is to "grind down" everyone involved until they compromise on anything and everything just to have peace. It is a process that can only be described as a kind of emotional torture (that is not without physical effects) - until all the judge has to do is sign a piece of paper with whatever has arbitrarily been decided by a combination of attornies, judge's opinion, and weary petitioners.

The proposed Court order from Judge Mangum stated that it would be "a benefit to the Court" for Venessa Mills to have a mental health assessment. A Christian homeschooling mother is forced to pay (with what?) 50% of her own mental health evaluation, based on no evidence whatsoever, for the benefit of the Court - because no-one, not the judge, or the attornies, or even the husband, stood up and said "That's wrong!" This one statement sums up the truth.

Our legal system no longer serves the people. It serves itself.

SUNDAY DEADLINE

In an article on WRAL.com, it states that Judge Mangum said he expects to sign a written order "in a few weeks."

The truth is that the deadline for any objections to his verbal orders is Sunday, March 15th. Even then, Venessa Mills will not have the opportunity to go before the judge. Objections must be submitted in writing so the judge can make his decision behind the scenes.

Use this link to automatically send faxes RIGHT NOW to the Judicial Standards Commission, the Governor, and state representatives! (This is an independent site and it makes a small charge to send the faxes.)

Judge Mangum needs to do the right thing and remove himself from this case. The Governor needs to do the right thing and intervene.

As far as we know, there is NO APPEAL to temporary orders in these circumstances. By the time the opportunity comes around to bring this back before a judge, these children will already be placed in public school. And that judge will probably be Judge Mangum, unless action is taken to see that Venessa Mills has a fair hearing and at least a chance for justice.

Drudge Report & WRAL.com


This story is now featured on Drudge Report and on WRAL.com.

Please take the time to review the information on this site, and then take action.

The court order is not signed yet, but Judge Mangum is aiming to finalize his orders on Monday. Venessa Mills will NOT have the opportunity to go before the judge again at this stage in the proceedings, leaving the judge free to impose his decisions behind the scenes.

Judge Mangum originally wanted to finalize these orders within a few days of his initial ruling - only recently did he even grant the full 10 days for Venessa to submit objections.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Focus On The Family - News & Observer


The Raleigh News & Observer has featured this story, along with an audio clip of Judge Mangum explaining part of his decision:


A short piece on this case was featured on Focus on the Family's CitizenLink website.


Free Song - "Here At The Table"

A music artist has donated one of his songs for any vistor to this website to download free of charge. The song relates his experiences at the family dinner table, and how it shaped his growth. He went to public school, but has been around many homeschool children. He has asked to remain anonymous so as not to get any attention for himself, but to focus support for Venessa Mills and her children.


Someone kindly provided the lyrics, as requested in the comments:

Here at the table with the family I love
Say a prayer and thank God for the food
Ask Him to be with those who have none
Thank him for His wisdom and His truth
Then we read a verse from the Word 
To remind us who we are
That the fellowship is sweeter than any food that could satisfy our hearts

Chorus
This is where peace and love lives
This is where my heart is consumed
This is where holiness began in me 
And where someday I hope to meet you

As we meet together and discuss the day
It isn't long before the truth is revealed
Hidden meanings behind the words I say
Are in the light so we can all be healed
How I thank God for all those times
When I could speak my mind so free
Though the rebuke that came sometime
Was love after love poured out for me

Feedback & Comments

A comment on the WRAL.com website claims that this action is not new for Judge Mangum:

"This judge also made me put my school age child in public school within 10 days. My child was 5 years old at the time and I was homeschooling. Judge Mangum said that since I didn't have a college degree in teaching, my child needed to be in a public school. NC Law states that a child doesn't have to be enrolled in school until age 7 and all that is needed to homeschool is a high school diploma. When I did put him in school, the teacher said that he was above the other kids on all levels. I feel that Judge Mangum overstepped his bounds not only in my case, but in this case as well. His reasonings for putting these kids in public school are against the laws set up for the state to homeschool."

This commentator makes a serious point. It should be done:

"This is very interesting "logic" on the part of Judge Ned Mangum.

"They allege, you deny" is what he repeated. He stated that this is what he would order in response to any similar allegation - so all that was needed was an allegation of drug abuse, or alcohol abuse, or physical abuse, and he would also have ordered assessments for all of those things - without one shred of supporting evidence or "probable cause.""

If there is an attorney that will bring a case before Judge Ned Mangum and raise the issue of his mental abilities, then, according to Judge Ned Mangum, he will order himself tested. In addition, raise the question of attorney Jaye Meyer and Mr. Mills.

All three, according to the very clear evidence have the inability to show empathy or comprehend cognitive processes in assimilating facts. Compromise and working together are seriously lacking in their social skills. Maybe if Judge Ned Mangum went back to public school for a few more years this might improve. We will find out when he is tested by trained professionals.

They would rather make normal things seem out of place and out of place matters seem normal. Definitely a symptom of bad sanity.

I am serious, since they are serious. I will even pay for the case to be brought into Judge Ned Mangum's court room.

Since we need no proof, nor hint of proof, which there is plenty of anyway, let the testing begin.

Anyone being dragged before Judge Ned Mangum should immediately, before being sworn in, raise the objection. Anyone going into his court room should object on the grounds that clearly he cannot, will not process facts. Don't waste your money. Just let Judge Mangum's injustice roll over you and save your money for appeals."

From the News&Observer website:

"My money says if the order is written to send the kids to public school, and the woman then appeals, she'll win the appeal. The judge can not terminate her right to home school without cause, and there is no cause, period. She's not on trial nor is home schooling. I think the judge realizes this, he's now back-pedaled and asked the parents to propose changes to the order, which is in effect telling the hubby he's got to give - i.e. the only thing being contested in the order is home schooling termination (read the 4th to the last paragraph) - so now the judge is not standing firm and is asking the parents to propose changes, he's seen the light. As far as her religion goes, people, it's of no consequence or effect here, no use trying to drag that into it. The judge certainly hasn't made reference to it, and, unless he's a complete idiot rather than just having been temporarily without his faculties, he won't. She'll get to home school, you guys suck it up....."


Every Contact Counts


Thank you to everyone who is calling, emailing, or sending letters.

Please don't be discouraged when people on the other end of the phone are rude, or if they tell you that it's "not their job" or that there's "nothing they can do." If it's not their department, tell them to call the right department themselves! This case is beyond "departments" anyway!

The system is set up so that it's difficult to find anyone who admits that anything is their responsibility. Attorneys say they are just doing their job, judges say they have to follow the "law" (even though they have huge discretion in cases like this), and commissions or politicians say that there's nothing they can do. But if people make their voices heard, then eventually the truth might reach someone who will take a stand.

Religious Beliefs - Church Is Slandered as "Cult"

The issue of Venessa Mills' church came up in the court case, with her husband accusing her of "being in a cult" and being "brainwashed."

Disagreeing with a person's religious beliefs is one thing. Slandering them and their church is quite another. Mr. Mills admits that his wife is a good mother and "loving and nurturing" towards their children. Both he and the court acknowledged that she is doing a good job in homeschooling. So why would he also introduce blatantly subjective and false allegations that she is "brainwashed" and in a "cult?" Read the facts on this blog and you can probably figure it out.

Unfortunately, these points have been picked up by people who want to divert attention away from the main issues, and by people with their own agendas and axes to grind.

Venessa's church can be found here: www.sdoctrine.org. Whether you agree with them or not, their beliefs have nothing to do with the facts of this case.

Thank You


I want to thank everyone for all the comments and support so far. I am reading everything and trying to keep up with all the interest this case is generating, and will try to update this blog whenever I can.

The goal in all of this is not to destroy or tear down anyone, or even lashing out at an adulterous husband. This is all being done prayerfully and in love, but we feel very strongly that we must stand up against injustice and not back down from telling the truth.

Judge Mangum has two choices: to pridefully stick to a bad decision, or to grab this opportunity to admit he was wrong and be a judge that actually follows justice.

Likewise, the governor and state officials can either wash their hands of the issue, or step in and do what's right.

Please pray for everyone involved, including Venessa's husband, his attorney, Judge Mangum, and the state officials that are being contacted.

WorldNetDaily Breaks This Exclusive Story


Judge Mangum's order to place Venessa Mills' three homeschooled children in public school has hit the front page of WorldNetDaily.


Some highlights:

  • "The judge, when contacted by WND, explained his goal in ordering the children to register and attend a public school was to make sure they have a "more well-rounded education."
  • "Mangum ... conceded it was putting his judgment in place of the mother's."
  • "However, the practice of a judge replacing a parent's judgment with his own regarding homeschooling was argued recently when a court panel in California ruled that a family would no longer be allowed to homeschool their own children.
  • WND reported extensively when the ruling was released in February 2008, alarming homeschool advocates nationwide because of its potential ramifications."
  • The North Carolina ruling also resembles a number of rulings handed down against homeschool parents in Germany, where such instruction has been banned since the years of Adolf Hitler's rule.
We appreciate WorldNetDaily taking this case seriously enough to draw attention to it in this way, and allowing more homeschoolers, concerned parents, and Christians nationwide to find out more of the facts. The insight this gives into our legal system is truly frightening - liberal opinions (even from some "conservatives") and ignorance dressed up as justice and "concern" for the best interest of the children.

Who knows the best interest of the children better than a mother that both the judge and the husband admit is "loving" and "nurturing" and has done a "good job" homeschooling? Not the adulterous husband or his attorney. And not the judge, that's for sure.

Don't wait until it's too late. There's still time to act in this case - and there's more at stake than just homeschooling rights. Don't just read the facts, don't think that it won't affect you. Make your voice heard now - demand justice from the North Carolina courts.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

North Carolina Homeschoolers Visit Legislature

On March 24th, NCHE (North Carolinians for Home Education) members will pay a visit to the state legislature. It's called CapitalFest 09.

Only a few weeks previous to this gathering, Judge Ned Mangum ordered three North Carolina children to be removed from homeschooling, where they were "thriving," and placed in public school. Under cover of a divorce case, Judge Mangum acted on his own obvious prejudice against homeschooling - with absolutely no evidence to support his judgment.

If you're going to attend Capital Fest 09, be sure to make the most of the opportunity. Let North Carolina legislators aware of this injustice - before it affects you, too!

If you don't live in North Carolina, be sure to check out the Action Steps page for things you can do to make a difference now! This case isn't over yet - there's still time to defend homeschool rights, moral and ethical standards, and conservative Christian values.

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Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. -- Martin Luther King Jr.

Court Order Slams Homeschooling and Assaults Justice


The provisional court order from Judge Mangum, as drafted by Mr. Mills' attorney, is an astonishing indictment against justice. The judge's personal agenda can clearly be seen to override the facts. What you'll see here is not a judge dispensing fair and balanced decisions in the best interests of children and parents, but a judge playing at marriage counsellor and dispensing emotional torture to an acknowledged "good" mother and homeschooler.

The following information contains direct quotes from the provisional court order:

"The children have thrived in homeschool for the past four years, but need the broader focus and socialization available to them in public school."

Completely contrary to the evidence that the Mills' children are well-balanced, socially aware, and excelling in education - even as admitted by the judge - somehow it is in their interests to be pulled out of homeschooling and thrown into public school. This is typical liberal prejudice and ignorance towards homeschooling.

Is the judge even aware of the state of our public schools? Yet he wants to take them out of an environment where they are "thriving" and deliberately expose them to "broader focus" and "socialization."

"Defendant (Mr. Mills) believes that plaintiff (Venessa Mills) is a good mother. Defendant believes that plaintiff is a nurturing mother who loves the children. Defendant believes that plaintiff has done a good job with the homeschooling of the children."

Even Mr. Mills admits that his wife is a good mother and has "done a good job" with homeschooling. Two of the children are already two grades ahead of their normal level. Yet Judge Mangum's response is to order a mental health evaluation of Venessa Mills and order the children to be sent to public school.

"The Court declines to include plaintiff's claimed costs for homeschooling as an extraordinary expense."

Not only does Venessa Mills have to pay her own homeschooling costs, but she is actually penalized for them by having them ignored in her child support calculations.

"The parties need to learn to co-parent the children."

Judge Mangums's method of encouraging both parents to "learn" this is to deny the mother's right to continue homeschooling, deny her adequate financial support, impose the most disruptive custody schedule. Mr. Mills requests, on the other hand, are almost universally granted. This is a strange definition of "co-parent."

"Defendant has committed adultery with [name excluded]. Defendant also has spent some times with [name excluded] when he could have been spending times with the children. Defendant has not had model behavior in this regard."

So, Mr. Mills commits adultery, spends time with his mistress when he could have been spending time with his children, and yet Judge Mangum apparently finds him to be worthy of receiving equal custody of the children, granting his request that the children be put in public school, giving him every financial leniency, and taking no action to remove him from the family home. The only censure in the entire document is, "Defendant has not had model behavior in this regard." Does this make any sense apart from the judge's personal agenda?? No way.

"Each party is a fit and proper parent to have temporary legal and physical custody of the minor children."

Except that Mr. Mills admitted to committing adultery, which directly detracted from his time with his children. But, despite these facts, Judge Mangum ordered a mental health evaluation on Venessa Mills - not her husband.

"It would be a benefit to the Court for plaintiff (Venessa Mills) to have a mental health assessment."

But Mr. Mills states that his wife is a good mother, devoted to her children, and has done a great job of homschooling. She is not guilty of any marital unfaithfulness whatsoever. Yet Judge Mangum orders a mental health assessment of her - and not her husband. Why? Because she has strong conservative Christian values? Because she believes that homeschooling is in the best interest of her children? Is being a Christian homeschooler now grounds for questioning someone's mental health??

The truth is that Mr. Mills and his attorney both know that there is no mental health issue. Both could have spoken up at any time to put a stop to this. However, their motivation was much more sinister - to divert attention from Mr. Mills infidelity by slandering Venessa Mills and her religious beliefs. Mr. Mills and his attorney even stooped as low as to make accusations of "brainwashing" and deliberately use slander, hearsay, and gossip directed at Venessa Mills' church.

Whether you agree with Venessa Mills' Christian beliefs or not, this is a slippery slope - liberal judges pandering to slander and ordering mental health assessments against a good mother with conservative Christian beliefs.


"It is clear that the parties never mutually agreed to the homeschooling of the children."

This is a total lie. The children have been homeschooled for four years, and Mr. Mills has complemented his wife - even on the court record - of doing a good job. Their three children are either at normal grade level, or considerably advanced, and - according to the court - have "thrived." The idea that there was never any mutual agreement for the homeschooling of the children is ridiculous! Mr. Mills clearly agreed and co-operated as long as it suited him, and is only pressing the issue now to cover up his own infidelities and failings as a father - as previously noted by the court.

"The Court finds that each party has the ability to pay one-half of the cost of " both the custody evaluation and mental health evaluation.

Venessa Mills, despite being a stay-at-home mom with no outside income, is being forced to pay for half of her own mental health assessment and half of the custody evaluation. The Court found that she had "insufficient means to defray the expenses" of her child support claim - so how does Judge Mangum get the idea that she can afford to pay for costly evaluations?

"The children's best interests will be served by enrolling in and attending public school"

This is completely contrary to all the evidence provided, and even contrary to the facts as contained in the same document. The only basis for this decision is a clear prejudice against homeschooling by Judge Mangum, and a clear bias towards Mr. Mills' requests.

"Defendant is employed full-time at [name excluded] where he earns gross earnings of $4,700 every two weeks."
  • That's $9,400 per month.
  • That's $122,200 per year.
"Plaintiff is not employed outside the home."
  • That's $0.00 per month.
  • That's $0.00 per year.
"The Court finds that child support as calculated under Worksheet B ... is appropriate in this matter."

This is the lowest amount of Child Support that could have been awarded. Naturally, as requested by Mr. Mills, in total contradiction to all evidence.

"Defendant shall pay monthly child support in the amount of $1,383.75 to plaintiff."

This is only $300 more than the mortgage payment on Venessa Mills' home. The judge expects her to continue homeschooling until the end of the school year, survive with three children on $300 a month, and/or somehow find a job that enables her to homeschool and only work nights every other week to accomodate the custody schedule! Not only is this completely disruptive to the children, but Judge Mangum is setting Venessa Mills up in an impossible situation - and then ordering a mental health and custody evaluation! The judge may call this justice - I call it blatant abuse.

"In the event that plaintiff fails to make the monthly mortgage payment on the marital residence, defendant may pay the monthly mortgage amount in partial satisfaction of his monthly child support obligation."

Unbelievable! Mr. Mills is trying to set things up so that if his wife chooses to buy food for her children instead of paying the mortgage, he can personally make the payment and impose the deduction from her child support! Mr. Mills wants to leave his wife with $300 per month and an impossible schedule, while he protects his own credit rating and continues to take home more than $5,000 per month.

And if Venessa Mills does not agree to all of these terms and orders, Mr. Mills is under no compulsion to leave the marital home until Judge Mangum rubber-stamps all of his requests.

This court order represents a travesty of justice in every sense of the word, perpetrated by Judge Mangum, Mr. Mills, and his attorney.

You can help! Take action now to draw attention to this injustice and prejudice, and demand Judge Mangum be removed from this case!

Reaction


Already, people are starting to react to this story:

"This is the case of an activist judge imposing his views and not hers, despite there being no abuse - that's un-American!"

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Action Steps


What Can You Do?

Please don't think that nothing can be done, or that you can't make a difference! Public officials, whether judges or governors or senators, pay attention to the public - 
that's why there are so many opinion polls. Make your voice heard. Don't let the "system" get in the way of justice!

This case is still ongoing - we have a chance to make a real difference! Call, fax, or email those in authority to have Judge Mangum removed from this case - so that Venessa Mills can get a fair hearing and homeschoolers can get justice.

1. Use this link to automatically send faxes RIGHT NOW to the contacts you choose from this page! (This is an independent site and it makes a small charge to send the faxes.)

2. Forward this message to every person on your contact list, and all those interested in protecting basic American rights. After the right to educate is gone, property and other basic rights will follow.

3. Join www.homeschoolliberty.com to spread the word and join with others in protesting against injustice and protecting homeschool rights.

4. Contact three officials to express your outrage at Venessa Mills' right to homeschool being taken away and the prejudicial orders of this judge. Three or four short emails or phone calls could be the difference for these kids, and many more like them.

You can reference the case number: #08CVD17753

Judge Mangum's Supervisors

Judicial Standards Commission 
P.O. Box 1122 
Raleigh, North Carolina 27602 
919-831-3630

Don't be discouraged or think that you can't make a difference! This case has not been finalized - there's still time to call for the removal of Judge Mangum - or, at the very least, make him review the facts and deliver a fair judgment.

Every contact counts! Call the numbers on this list to demand justice!


State Legislators

NC Senate-Neal Hunt (R)
919-733-5850
Neal.Hunt@ncleg.net

NC House-Ty Harrell (D)
919-733-5602
Ty.Harrell@ncleg.net

North Carolina Governor

Governor Bev Perdue
Office of the Governor
20301 Mail Service Center
Raleigh, NC 27699-0301
Phone: (919)733-4240
Fax: (919)733-2120

Opposing Attorney

Attorneys hide behind the excuse of "just doing their job." Don't buy it! Attorneys have an obligation to uphold the law with justice in mind. If the law is unjust, then someone needs to stand against it. And for any attorney to defend or promote blatant injustice is unethical and immoral.

Let no young man choosing the law for a calling for a moment yield to the popular belief -- resolve to be honest at all events; and if in your own judgment you cannot be an honest lawyer, resolve to be honest without being a lawyer. --Abraham Lincoln: July 1, 1850

In our "opinion," no-one should support a lawyer or law firm that seeks to slander, misquote, use out of context, or in any other way attack American rights or the teaching of Jesus Christ. This attorney may have won some awards, but - in our opinion - she should also win "Unethical Lawyer of the Year."

Write with your "objections" to Mr. Mills' attorney:

Jaye Meyer

Tharrington  Smith, LLP
209 Fayetteville Street
P.O. Box 1151
Raleigh, North  Carolina 27602  
(Wake  County)
Telephone: 919-821-4711
FAX:  919-829-1583
E-mail: jmeyer@tharringtonsmith.com

Quotes from Judge Mangum


Judge Mangum said:

"You've done well in homeschooling, done a good job." But he then ordered that the children be placed in public school.

"I think they'll do better in public school." Despite the fact that two of the children are already two grades ahead for their age.

Public school will "prepare these kids for the real world and college ... be able to also have socialization." Despite the evidence clearly showing extra-curricular activities, field trips, ample opportunities for socializing, and preparation for the "real world."

"This is not about religion."

But public school will "challenge the ideas you've taught them."

"Mr. Mills conduct is less than to be desired." Apparently, this is the only censure for the crime of adultery (NC statute 14-184) in Judge Mangum's courtroom. Mr. Mills was granted almost all of his requests for the temporary orders.

But "proximity is an advantage." Never mind the emotional stress and confusion for Venessa Mills and her children, while Mr. Mills continues to play tennis with his mistress.

"I'm not going to rule on when you need to move out." In effect, leaving Mr. Mills with the freedom to stay in the home as long as he wants, continuing an unstable environment for the children, and using his leaving as a bargaining tool to make Venessa Mills agree to his demands for splitting their property.

Venessa Mills mental health evaluation, and the custody evaluation, are to be paid with a "50/50 split." Despite Venessa not being given the financial means to pay for this. And no mental evaluation at all for Mr. Mills.

"I've read every word of every affidavit" But he then proceeded to ignore all the evidence and base his orders on his own personal opinions.

"I'm not going to micromanage." In reality, no management was done at all - other than to impose public school on the children, provide the lowest child support amount, and conditions that make it impossible for Venessa Mills to continue homeschooling or even living in the family home.

*** Press Release ***


NC Judge orders homeschool mother to put kids in public school

March 11, 2009, Raleigh, NC - Venessa Mills is fighting a legal battle for the heart and soul of homeschooling in North Carolina. On Friday, March 6, Judge Ned W. Mangum stripped her of the right to homeschool, and ordered her three children to enter public school.

Mills was forced to defend her right to homeschool during divorce proceedings brought on by her husband's unfaithfulness. Mr. Mills admitted, under oath, to repeatedly committing adultery. Even with abundant evidence showing the Mills children are well adjusted and well educated, Judge Mangum ruled overwhelmingly against Mrs. Mills on every point. He stated the children would do better in public school despite the fact that they are currently at or beyond their grade level. Evidence showed two children tested several grades ahead.

When issuing his verdict Judge Mangum stated his decision was not ideologically or religiously motivated. However, he told Mrs. Mills public school will "challenge the ideas you've taught them." 

What has emerged is a picture of a clearly liberal judge imposing his beliefs and striking down traditional values. Mangum, a Democrat appointee, disregarded the facts of the case in favor of his own agenda. Such anti-conservative prejudice is increasingly legislated from the bench, and appears to be encouraged by the Democratic Obama administration.

Robyn Williams, friend and homeschool mother of four was present at the proceeding. "I have never seen such injustice and such a direct attack against homeschooling," said Williams. "This judge clearly took personal issue with Venessa's stance on education and faith, even though her children are doing great. If her right to homeschool can be taken away so easily, what will this mean for homeschoolers state wide, or even nationally?"

On March 24th lawmakers in North Carolina will be reminded of the sheer numbers of homeschoolers in their state. As students and their parents descend on the capitol, organizers of the Capital Fest 2009 field trip will show they have a voice in North Carolina legislation regarding education.

Williams is rallying homeschoolers from across the nation to fight back to defend their rights as Americans to educate their children. She feels the judge has been given a free hand to impose his personal opinions and needs to reexamine his decisions. Please subscribe to Robyn's blog and join the fight for protecting everyone's homeschool rights (www.HSinjustice.com).

For more information or to schedule an interview contact Adam Cothes at acothes.publicity@gmail.com or call 253-797-6194. 

Facts of the Case

North Carolina Case #08CVD17753

On Friday, March 6th 2009, North Carolina judge Ned Mangum presided over the case of Venessa Mills, and gave the following orders:

1. Three homeschooled children, who were independently tested at grade level and two grades above, must be sent to public school.

2. The judge said that the children's Christian beliefs, as taught by their mother, were to be deliberately "challenged" by their public education.

3. The children's mother was not given enough financial support to allow her to continue homeschooling, or even to adequately survive in the family home.

4. The children were burdened with a 50/50 visitation schedule of equally divided time, while the mother temporarily continued to homeschool them, creating a completely unworkable and disruptive environment.

5. (The judge's intent from the beginning was to force these parents back together and out of his courtroom, acting like a liberal-biased marriage counselor instead of being a judge.)

6. The children's father, who admitted under oath to having an adulterous affair, was given freedom to stay at the family home indefinitely while continuing to play tennis with his mistress. His crime of adultery was rewarded, rather than censured.

7. The children's mother's conservative Christian beliefs were deliberately attacked and slandered by the opposing attorney, and she was accused of being brainwashed for simply upholding the truths of the Bible.

8. Despite a complete lack of evidence, she was punished with a mental health evaluation - while the judge deliberately exposed her to the continued emotional trauma of her adulterous husband living with her and her children.

9. The children's father was granted his request for the children to go to public school, the minimum level of financial support, and - with no official order to leave the home - was, in effect, given complete freedom to dictate property settlement and terms before moving out.

10. A home evaluation is to be carried out - most likely after the children's public school starts, and still in the midst of their parent's divorce, a disruptive visitation schedule, and their mother's financial hardship. The judge knows this is a recipe for failure, for which the mother will be blamed.

11. After the judge's verbal ruling was made public, he added large amounts of gossip and slanderous statements against the mother's church in order to divert attention away from his imprudent remarks about homeschooling.

This is a prima facie case of injustice and prejudice. It's not about conservatives versus liberals - we wouldn't even want liberals to be treated this way.